I am a manipulative control freak who is genuinely surprised when men won't do what I ask. Now if that doesn't make you want to hang out with me, I don't know what will!
My father likes to tell the story of when I was a toddler sitting on my Daddy's shoulders with one hand on either side of his head, turning it whichever direction I wanted him to go. Haha, guess I haven't changed much.
If I want a guyfriend to do something and they say no I only see it as an opportunity to change their mind...through logic, manipulation, and when it comes down to it, pleading.
I notice that I do it on a grand scale (bugging Adam until he agreed to go on a spontaneous roadtrip with me) as well as small daily things (just try to leave my house before 1 or 2 a.m., haha... "Aw, come on, just stay. You don't actually have to be on time for work tomorrow...just stay. Lets watch a movie.")
So there we go: New Years Resolution #1 -- Try not to be so much of a manipulative jerk.