"Mormon May Fun" -Aaron's 'movie'

Susannah's petpeeve of the day: Guilttriping


I looked at cell phone plans at Nextel the other day. Ok, so maybe it was 2/3 about the phones and a good 1/3 about Nextel Boyfriend, though he wasn't the dude talking to me.

He said he'd give me $50 off my first bill if I signed up and bought the phone that day. I told him I'd rather keep my money to spend in Europe next week. Then the guilttripping started.

Why it bugs me so much is because I am incredibly submissive. I always have been. I feel really bad if I am dissappointing someone. When they put pressure on me by guilttripping me it is even harder.

So when I am put in a place where two friends would both be disappointed in me if I didn't do what they want--but the two can't both be done--then I am completely stuck. I have no idea what to do. I want to please both of them, but obviously that isn't going to happen. So I end up disappointing/annoying someone, and then I feel horrible.

I am only one person, and although I want to please you all the time--I can't. Don't make it harder on me by guilttripping me!